Sofia Solutions-"I did it my way"-Frank Sinatra

 

There are stages to healing that create solutions. We see, feel or think there might be a problem and so there is. We want a solution, and we want it fast, a solution right now, and sometimes depending on the circumstance, the urgency is met with an emergency. Immediate oxygen or a blood transfusion.

The list is numinous.

The first step is in our baby years, needs being met when they present themselves. Hunger is met with food at a particular time, eye gazing and love nourishes us. These are all internal cues that we have in our immediate surroundings. They are very basic but crucial to our lives. In connection we get it done "our way", out of a connection of needs met, if it's not given but imposed, forced, or neglected, we become suspended in a timing that is "off"

We act from what we know, what we see, and how we interact in the world determines our ability to be healed or walking injured. Once urgent care is given. We return to a more natural giving and receiving. If we don't move our stages of maturation in our healing, we etch the first stage of emergency. 

Usually, our biological clock or a burst of hormones and physical growth take us to other stages of our development. But what do we do if there are gaps and places that do not have the next steps there for us? If we are surrounded by our peers, we see the variations of parenting and sibling interaction. We sometimes search there to have needs met. These soulful relationships transcend the biological in that moment providing an energy from community that we need to learn, to heal, to grow...up.

Sometimes....down, these interactions happen and instead of maturation, we are etched in a place of being "stuck", we can still work the edge to say "no" I am doing it my way. It's this stage of the two-year-old who doesn't really know what they are saying 'no" to, it can be everything and nothing. Our edge is a spiritual place of the warrior that makes a stance of power against the energies that keep us from seeing we are the ones with power and in power.

It is the teen years where the internal fire of the solar plexus and sexual power comes in to say, "I'm doing it my way", These moments of understanding our power have us mature into adulthood. The energy of the solar plexus moves up and into the higher heart, as we grow up. If it moves down into the sexual second chakra, we move into addiction territory, which etches the quality of our wounds as a life lived from there. A warriors journey however can walk an edge of wounded territory by calling on "the medicine." This is like a challenge, a dual with an energy that rules you, an opponent that limits our natural inclination towards the sun, the rain, the earth and the ethers which is sometimes referred to as the spirit.

There are ebbs and flows to this journey and there are leaps and bounds, flight, falls, stops and starts and a smooth or bumpy ride. It takes many forms and because you are unique in your journey, what I offer is a true seeing of your power and a power union where I can support you to "do it your way."  The agreement is in relationship to life, to yourself and to others, so you can say "I did it my way"- The first step to Sofia solutions.

 

Once we have the first step, or several first steps to create a healthy pattern we take the second step or stage to "We did it our way."

Solutions, Solvent, Solved. 

Love,

Sofia Gayle